小結
僅僅瞭解同情是什麼,並不足以讓我們做出更多善舉。從體察他人痛苦到對其伸出援手,中間有一大段距離,但是慈愛冥想和同情冥想可以增加我們縮短距離的概率。同理心有三種——認知同理心、情緒同理心和同理心關懷。人們經常在情感上感受到他人的痛苦,但往往馬上停止同理心,以擺脫這種糟糕的情緒。
但是,同情冥想增強了同理心關懷,激活了我們大腦中的積極感受和愛,也讓我們能更好地感受他人的痛苦,讓人準備好去幫助遭難之人。同情冥想和慈愛冥想提高了大腦杏仁核對於痛苦的敏感度,同時將注意力放在呼吸這樣中性的事情上,降低杏仁核的活躍度。慈愛冥想見效快,只需8個小時就能初見成效,而且人們練習的時間越長,大腦和行為越傾向於同情。冥想在初期的影響有著很大的作用,使我們為行善做好生物性準備。
[1] “沙漠之父”們是早期的基督教隱士,2世紀時居住在遙遠的埃及沙漠地區。他們主要通過背誦一條基督教口頭禪——“Kyrie Eleison”(希臘語,意為“仁慈的主”)進行宗教實踐。這些隱士的習俗是後來修士和修女遵循的基督教教條的前身,如今居住在阿託斯島上的東正教修士仍然一遍遍地念著“Kyrie Eleison”。據史書記載,來自埃及的基督教修士自7世紀起就定居在阿託斯島上。Helen Waddell, The Desert Fathers (Ann Arbor: University of Michigan Press, 1957).
[2] 為了對促進或阻礙利他行為的條件進行全面而系統的評估,我們設置了“好撒瑪利亞人”實驗。Daniel Batson, Altruism in Humans (New York:Oxford University Press, 2011).
[3] Sharon Salzberg, Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness (Boston:Shambhala, 2002).
[4] 研究人員發現,自我批評並非抑鬱症患者的專利,而是伴隨著種種情緒問題出現。像研究者一樣,我們也樂意看到這樣的研究成果:冥想訓練增強了一個人的自我同情,同時在他的腦回路中發生了相應的轉變。參見:Ben Shahar, “A Wait-List Randomized Controlled Trial of Loving Kindness Meditation Programme for Self-Criticism,” Clinical Psychology and Psychotherapy (2014); doi: 10.1002/cpp.1893。
[5] 例如,參見:Jean Decety, “The Neurodevelopment of Empathy,”Developmental Neuroscience 32 (2010), 257-67。
[6] Olga Klimecki et al., “Functional Neural Plasticity and Associated Changes in Positive Affect after Compassion Training,” Cerebral Cortex 23:7 (July 2013):1552-61.
[7] Olga Klimecki et al., “Differential Pattern of Functional Brain Plasticity after Compassion and Empathy Training,” Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience 9:6 (June 2014): 873-79; doi:10.1093/scan/nst060.
[8] Thich Nhat Hanh, “The Fullness of Emptiness,” Lion’s Roar, August 6, 2012.
[9] Gaelle Desbordes, “Effects of Mindful-Attention and Compassion Meditation Training on Amygdala Response to Emotional Stimuli in an Ordinary, Non Meditative State,” Frontiers in Human Neuroscience 6:292 (2012):1-15;doi:10.399/fnhum.2012.00292.
[10] Cendri A. Hutcherson et al., “Loving-Kindness Meditation Increases Social Connectedness,” Emotion 8:5 (2008): 720-24.
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[13] Antoine Lutz et al., “Regulation of the Neural Circuitry of Emotion by Compassion Meditation: Effects of Meditative Expertise,” PLoS One 3:3(2008): e1897; doi:10.1371/journal.pone.0001897.
[14] J. A. Brefczynski-Lewis et al., “Neural Correlates of Attentional Expertise in Long-Term Meditation Practitioners,” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 104:27 (2007): 11483-88.
[15] Clifford Saron, presentation at the Second International Conference on Contemplative Science, San Diego, November 2016.
[16] Abigail A. Marsh et al., “Neural and Cognitive Characteristics of Extraordinary Altruist,” Proceedings of the National Academy of Sciences 111:42 (2014):15036-41; doi: 10.1073/pnas.1408440111.
[17] 多種因素的共同作用促成了利他主義,其中,感同身受的能力是最重要的一個因素。當然,腎臟捐獻者的大腦結構是獨特的,冥想者的大腦變化不及腎臟捐獻者那般強烈和持久。參見:Desbordes, “Effects of Mindful-Attention and Compassion Meditation Training on Amygdala Response to Emotional Stimuli in an Ordinary, Non-Meditative State,” 2012.
[18] Tania Singer and Olga Klimecki, “Empathy and Compassion,” Current Biology 24:15 (2014): R875-R878.
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[20] Tania Singer et al., “Empathy for Pain Involves the Affective but Not Sensory Components of Pain,” Science 303:5661 (2004): 1157-62; doi: 10.1126/science.1093535.
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